Longing To Belong

3 hour Healing Masterclass

Heal the wound of isolation and separation, so that you can find your rightful place in life.

14 July 2024 16:30-19:30 UK time

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Can you imagine what it would be like when ...

YOU RELAX

There’s such a deep sense of relaxation that comes from feeling at home with other people, where your whole system can drop the effort of trying to be who others want you to be in order to be accepted.

YOU ACCEPT YOURSELF

When you don’t fit in, it’s easy to blame yourself for that. There must be something wrong with me, if they can’t love me as I am. If only I could change X, Y & Z, then they would love me. When you finally accept all of yourself, others do too.

YOU FEEL CONNECTED

Belonging with your family system is one of the core human needs. Often the sense of not belonging stems from a deep disconnect with yourself and others. That disconnect is often passed from one generation to another. It can be healed.

YOU FEEL WELL IN YOURSELF

Without a sense of belonging people get lonely, depressed and ill physically and psychologically. As species, we were not meant to exist in isolation. But other people can’t make us feel well. It’s an inside job, that facilitates deeper connections.

I know what you’re thinking...

I don’t know how it’ll work for me. I get it.

I have always felt like an outsider. My grandparents brought me up as their own. I didn’t quite belong with their family unit, but I also didn’t belong with my mum’s family after she remarried. At school, I wasn’t quite a tomboy but I wasn’t a girly girl either. Later on, when I worked for an American organisation, I didn’t feel the same affinity with my local colleagues, but I wasn’t one of the Americans. Moving to the UK has only aggravated this sense of being neither here nor there: I no longer belonged in Azerbaijan, but I didn’t quite fit in in England either.

So this feeling of not belonging haunted me all my life. And it was only through doing the inner work I came to the point where I belong with myself, and from there, external connections flow with more ease.

And that’s exactly why I’ve created this 3-hour masterclass.

What people are saying

“Gulara and I worked on self sabotage, avoidance and feeling not good enough, which have been recurrent themes for me. She was able to identify it all as a Rejection wound and got to the root of it very quickly, giving me compassion for things I tell no one, but that she saw within me. The healing that happened was pretty miraculous for me. I highly recommend her. She is very gifted.”

— Alice D. in Virginia, USA

“Gulara is the healer you are looking for, especially for women. I felt so supported and safe to finally allow my deepest wounds and imprints related to abandonment and betrayal to be seen and heard. Gulara is an earth angel and I am grateful to have found her on my healing journey.”

— Suzanna T. in NSW, Australia

What does it take to fit in and belong?

Step 1. Heal the wound of rejection

It’s painful when you feel rejected, often by people you love the most. You then expect rejection whichever way you turn. By healing the core wound, which can happen before you were even born can help you to open to more connections.

Step 2. Heal abandonment

Sometimes, the abandonment wound is at the heart of not belonging. You feel like you’re completely alone in the world. Sadly, you abandon yourself too in the process. Integrating those abandoned parts is the key to feeling of belonging.

Step 3. Heal sadness and anguish

There’s so much stored grief and sadness that you carry from not fitting in. It’s heartbreaking to feel on the outside, constantly looking in… There’s also a lot of rage at the injustice of it all. Releasing the suppressed emotions is the key.

Step 4. Reclaim your sense of worth

Feeling abandoned and rejected can rob you of your sense of self-worth. You may believe that you’re not good enough, and that’s why others rejected you. Cultivating your confidence and self-esteem are essential to allowing connections.

Hi! I’m Gulara, your Relationship and Trauma Healing Coach

My passion is to empower women in their relationship(s) so that they can live up to their fullest potential at home and in their careers. I can help you to heal any unhealthy, dysfunctional or toxic patterns in your relationships, so that you can enjoy the love you deserve.

Using a unique blend of cutting-edge energy healing methods, I support you in transforming your personal life, so that you can live up to your full potential at home and at work.

I’m an energy healer, the author of international bestseller Hammer, Sickle & Broom: A Memoir of Intergenerational Trauma in Azerbaijan and university associate law lecturer.

I live in rural Dartmoor National Park in South England with my two children.