What do I want?

Recording of a 3 hour Healing Masterclass

If you lost a sense of direction in life and feel that your wants don’t matter, that you can never have what you want anyway, that even when you get what you want there’s a perpetual state of disappointment, then this healing class is for you.

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Can you imagine what it would be like when ...

YOUR CHOICES MATTER

You don’t go along to get along. You choose for yourself what it is that you want, not waiting for others to determine what you can or can’t have. You choose yourself - you start saying ‘yes’ to your wants rather than pleasing others.

YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT

You stop feeling ashamed of your wants. You want what you want for very good reasons. You don’t judge yourself so harshly and allow yourself to be who you are, complete with your wants and desires.

YOU KNOW YOU’RE SAFE

You stop pleasing others when you know that you’re safe. That sense of safety comes from within when you heal the parts of you that were told off for being greedy, selfish and wrong. Only then you can lower your guard and allow your wants.

YOU FEEL JOY

There’s so much joy in knowing what you want AND… potentially having it. To allow joy in, you need to release past disappointments and heartbreaks at not having or loosing what you held precious.

I know what you’re thinking...

I don’t know how it’ll work for me. I get it. I used to be where you’re right now…

I had no sense of what I wanted in life. I let others decide for me because it’s seemed like a path of least resistance. Even when I had what I want, I couldn’t fully enjoy it as I lived in fear of loosing it.

My needs and wants were on the backburner and somehow my health and well-being were the bottom of my priority list. People-pleasing was ‘normal’ - I didn’t even know when I was doing it.

The worst part? When I said ‘yes’ to others (without meaning it) I said ‘no’ to myself. It’s as if I didn’t matter.

Through undergoing the process of healing ‘What do I want?’, I redefined my relationship with myself and other people. It has impacted all areas of my life: my ability to speak up and voice my wants, charge well for my gifts, self-care and intimacy, and so much more.

And that’s exactly why I’ve created this 3-hour masterclass so that you could experience this shift too.

What people are saying

“My life has completely changed since I’ve been working with Gulara, from asking and wondering to creating and receiving… Miracles showing up like falling from the sky, I never would have believed this if you would have asked me beforehand. She is helping me to truly allow all the miracles now and every time we cover such deep aspects of hiding fears or inner splits. I’m so grateful for our sessions, The best investment ever! So much love, safety and truth…”

— Ineke G. in Netherlands

“My session with Gulara was amazing, it was beyond all my expectations. From the beginning of the session she took me to a smooth clearing journey and she was so professional and so precise, at one point i felt like she could read my mind 🙂 I was so suprised and impressed by the accuracy of the clearing statements. I definitely recommend Gulara’s beautiful guidance.”

— Zeynep T. in Bursa, Turkey

What does it take to open up to your wants?

Step 1. It’s OK to want what you want

Other people’s expectations, external pressures and your quest for validation and recognition can lead you to suppressing your wants. Letting go of that false identity is the first step on this journey.

Step 2. To know that you matter

It’s hard to know that you matter when you have to please others to fit in and feel relative safety. Chances are you’ve been rejected when expressing your wants and vowed to suppress them.

Step 3. Self-acceptance

To say ‘yes’ to your wants you need to stop judging and rejecting certain experiences you had in life. Learning to accept all of you, including your emotions (‘good’ and ‘bad’) can create deep relaxation in your nervous system.

Step 4. Permission slip

Everything changes when you give yourself permission to want what you want and accept that you may not get it. Your wanting is important in its own right. Wanting only what you can get is limiting and stifling.

Hi! I’m Gulara, your Relationship and Trauma Healing Coach

My passion is to empower women in their relationship(s) so that they can live up to their fullest potential at home and in their careers. I can help you to heal any unhealthy, dysfunctional or toxic patterns in your relationships, so that you can enjoy the love you deserve.

Using a unique blend of cutting-edge energy healing methods, I support you in transforming your personal life, so that you can live up to your full potential at home and at work.

I’m an energy healer, the author of international bestseller Hammer, Sickle & Broom: A Memoir of Intergenerational Trauma in Azerbaijan and university associate law lecturer.

I live in rural Dartmoor National Park in South England with my two children.