Five patterns that sabotage your success
Based on working with hundreds of clients, I can see five patterns that get in the way of your success.
1. You judge yourself.
Perhaps, you have an old story that you’re not good enough. You may judge yourself for not being more accomplished, you get angry and frustrated with not taking action, you procrastinate and feel under pressure. It’s not like you don’t know what to do, but the thought of doing it brings up fears that stop you in your tracks: fear of failure, fear of making a fool of yourself, fear of rejection. Underneath all these fears there’s one core issue: fear of judgement.
Until you heal your fear of judgment, it’s likely to get in the way of everything you do.
I got you covered. I’m running a 3-hour healing experience on Healing Fear of Judgment tomorrow 26 September at 12:00-15:00 UK time/ 7:00-10:00am EST.
Link is here: www.gularavincent.co.uk/free-from-judgment
2. You believe you have to earn love/ money/ success with hard work.
Don’t get me wrong. Good work ethics is great. What may become a problem is your addiction to struggle and suffering. Sometimes struggle and efforting can become so familiar that even though you don’t like it, you overcomplicate things and make them more difficult that they need to be.
I got you covered. I’m running a 3-hour healing experience on Healing your addiction to struggle and suffering on 24 October 12:00-15:00 UK time/ 7:00-10:00am EST
Link is here: www.gularavincent.co.uk/free-from-struggle
3. You neglect your own needs
You push yourself too hard until you burn out. You over-give at home and at work and have been running on empty for decades. This is how it may play out in your career. Let’s say you want more paying clients, but you’re already feeling depleted. Although consciously you’re calling in more clients, subconsciously, you’re repelling them out of fear of burn out.
I got you covered. I’m running a 3-hour healing experience on Healing patterns of self-neglect on 21 November 12:00-15:00 UK time/ 7:00-10:00am EST
Link is here: www.gularavincent.co.uk/heal-self-neglect
4. Fear of visibility
Any successful undertaking requires you to be more visible, but if you don’t feel good about your body image, because you think you’re too fat/ too old/ too whatever, then you’re not going to put yourself out there. You’ll shy away from any opportunities for more publicity.
I got you covered. I’m running a 5-week course to address emotional eating. In my experience, putting weight on is a sure way of protecting yourself from criticism, attack or punishment.
Link is here: www.gularavincent.co.uk/end-emotional-eating
5. You underestimate the power of your presence
Your presence is the magic ingredient that helps you to stand out in the crowd. If you’re able to stay present with your clients/ children/ loved ones, you can meet and deal with any challenge, however insurmountable. Instead, you get identified with the younger wounded parts of your psyche that flap, panic and hold you back. To embrace more success and to expand your capacity to hold more, you need to learn to be more present.
I got you covered. I’m running two embodied presence sessions on 3 October and 28 November at 1:30-3:00pm UK time/ 8:30-10:00am EST.
Here’s the link: www.gularavincent.co.uk/embodied-presence
I hope you’re able to join me to heal some of these sabotaging patterns. You can join the individual events or purchase a bundle of all the above mentioned events at a deeply discounted price. The value of this package is £1500, but it’s on sale for £850 (payment plan is available).
Today is the last day to take advantage of this offer.
You can buy the bundle here: www.gularavincent.co.uk/bodyconfidence