Why Change Is So Difficult?

For years and years I wanted big changes in my life. Yet every time something shifted, I felt terrified. I had so many experiences of things changing for the worse and not for the better that a part of me didn’t trust change.

While I wanted something, I also dreaded it, and sometimes blocked it too.

I remember the time when I separated from my husband. It was a difficult decision, but I was clear it was for both of our highest good.

The week he was due to move out into a rental, we got me a newish second hand car. I was driving it for only 3 days when I had a car accident. My bumper was gone. I was so shaken by the experience that his move was delayed by three weeks.

Although I instigated the separation, when it came down to making it happen, I put breaks on (literally), because I was so scared of change.

Where do you put breaks on in your life? Is it time to release that resistance to change?

Join me live on 1 December so that we can do it together. 

Here’s the link to sign up: www.gularavincent.co.uk/resistance-release