What Would You See, I wonder?

I was on a holiday recently and had an eye-opening experience.

The hotel where we stayed had several pools. The main pool had some activities in the afternoons, so we often opted out for a quieter pool at the back of the hotel.

One afternoon, there was a group of people doing aqua aerobics that I enjoy, so while my partner and daughter played in the water, I watched a group of women and men diligently repeating an instructor’s moves.

To my amazement, the instructor was an old lady with a walking stick. Her skin was all wrinkled and she was in a siting position, but my sense was that the group was not deterred by her limited mobility and mirrored her moves perfectly.

‘Look,’ I said to my partner after a while, ‘what an amazing hotel! I love their values here. How wonderful that they create equal opportunities for people of all ages and abilities.’

I must admit, I went on and on about it.

On the way out of the pool, I saw the full picture. There was a male instructor in the water with a buff body guiding the group. I had a blind spot and couldn’t see him from the other pool. The elderly woman was one of the hotel guests repeating his moves!

So often, you see life through the prism of your beliefs and values. You don’t even know what your blind spot is until the bigger picture is revealed.

Change the lens or the angle, and suddenly you can see your reality more fully.

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