‘I have to work hard in order to make money.’
‘I have to work hard in order to make money.’
Does this sound familiar?
There’s nothing wrong with working hard. I’m certainly grateful for my work ethics that got me here.
This pattern can become a problem when you work yourself into the ground, burn out, pull back, only to dive in at the deep end again till the next burn out.
So why do you run this pattern?
Here’re a couple of layers that can contribute to this pattern.
Parental influences:
If you grew up seeing your parents slaving away at work, you could make a conclusion that that's how you make money. Then you either work really hard to justify your existence and to feel accepted, loved and respected or you go in the opposite direction where the thought of working hard makes you feel trapped and imprisoned. Perhaps, you even swing from one extreme to the other. One thing is clear though that we imprint our parents’ behaviour around money, and either repeat their patterns or vow to never be like them. Unless you heal these patterns, this subconscious programming can run you into the ground.
Ancestral influences:
My grandmother, orphaned when she was 10, started working at a match factory at the age of 11 to support her aunt and two cousins. She told me countless stories about struggle and hard work. Combined with the Soviet policy of glorifying hard work of the proletariat, it seeped deep into my psyche, forming a part of my identity. The message was clear and loud: if I wanted to belong with this family/government system, then I had to work hard; failure to do so could lead to judgment and rejection.
These are just two examples that can impact your attitude to working hard. The thing is when you run that pattern it shows up everywhere, whether it's your work life, your love life, your relationship with your children, etc. It can even be present in your friendships, where you have to be the one who contacts your friends or hosts them to get the attention and love that you crave.
I'm running a 5-week course starting on 28 February where we'll be releasing all these patterns from your cells, DNA, subconscious mind, ancestral line, etc, so that you can unlock your full potential in life. Join us live here: www.gularavincent.co.uk/unlock
Here's what one of my clients said about healing her money blocks:
This was my first 1:1 with Gulara and loved every bit of it. She has a unique style and it works so rapidly like a breeze. She helped me clear a money block where I had the urge spend it all as soon as I receive money. She touched all the areas and merged them so beautifully. At the end of the session, I felt pure bliss. Thank you so very much!
—Anuradha R. in India
P.S. My next live 3-hour healing class is on Healing Inability to Focus and Achieve Your Goals on 17 March at 4:30-7:30pm UK time. www.gularavincent.co.uk/adhd
With all my love
Gulara